Friday, February 01, 2008

Good Always Wins

Even when I receive emails like this one:

"Yeah, It's my Karma I need to be worried about. After all, It's your girlfriend Laura who left you. It's your pets that are dying off left and right. It's you who is losing your house. But it's my Karma.

Seems that Karma has caught up with someone... but it sure as hell isn't me."


I never think about quitting blogging and I don't regret sharing my story.

The wonderful people I have met via my blog make up for all the bad.

Good always wins.

13 comments:

Anonymous said...

What a jerk! I enjoy your stories and your blog even though I don't comment often. Keep up the great work here, Caroline!

Abby

A social worker in the making. said...

I love the stories also.Maybe this person is bitter cause she or he cant heal like you have.Keep up the great blogging

Anonymous said...

What I've learned about people who are hateful is that (whether they realize it or not) they are using others as a mirror. Sounds like this person is projecting his/her feelings onto you to avoid looking at the problems that surround him/her.

Reminds me of a bible verse that goes something like "before you spend so freaking much time poking around at the stick in my eye, ya might wanna use some of that time digging the big ol' rafter out of your own damn eye."

Lynilu said...

Isn't it interesting that some people project and personify ugliness, yet they think it is on everyone else? Traci is right ... that person is trying to shake off their own nastiness and make it yours. I know you won't let it stick.

What a sad person that is. And what an amazing, resilient, strong woman you are!

Lynilu said...

BTW, I love Traci's "quote"!!!! LOL!!!

Julie said...

SO interesting. A person actually takes the time to write a mean email to a total stranger. You do just have to sort of wonder what goes on in their little heads? I do. Do you think they ever look at themselves? Or have any friends? Thanks for sharing it with us!

One Messed Up Chick said...

I still love ya LOL :) karma is a bitch!

Audra said...

What an idiot. That person must really have no life if they are putting their energy into such negativity! If that is how it makes their life feel more important- let them be!

I am glad you can rise above it- and they will get theirs!

Is this someone that you know or some random internet stalker?

Casey said...

LOL! This totally reminds me of Rosie O'Donnell's comments. People will go there and say how much they hate her and go on and on about what a terrible person she is and she will respond "And yet you are here."

I can't imagine using my energy to visit the blogs of people that I didn't care for and I certainly can't imagine using my energy to send emails or comments. Makes me think they care more than they will admit to anyone - including themselves. I find that interesting.

Keep on keeping on, girl. You're doing fine. :)

Caroline said...

abby--thanks for the encouragement

redfrog27--this person really is bitter and i feel so sorry for tem

traci--what a great comment..i totally agree with all you said..thanks

lynilu--i think i have a good idea why this person is so hateful all the time

julie--sadly i dont' think there is much going on in this person head

eye of the rainbow--thanks...love ya too

audra--long story short...i knew this guy from when we went to camp together as kids..found each other through our blogs 2 years ago and he is just a complete ass...he seems to have some hang up with the fact that i am gay...must be bringing up his own insecurities...

casey--this person is just nuts...one day writing nice emails in support and then bashing me in the next one...he sure thinks a lot about me when he says he hates me so..hehe

Sonya said...

LOL - I LOVE Traci's comment!

I can't believe people. I'm a person who "likes to tell it how it is" (not a very likeable trait, unfortunately), but come on. This isn't constructive or helpful.

I agree with others that this commentor likely has their own issues going on. Why else would they take the time to spread hateful energy?

Monogram Queen said...

That's right and FUCK OFF whoever wrote that! Yeah email me at tindal38@yahoo.com if you have a problem.

Holly said...

ugh. wtf?!?!
that is a bitter person. and I'm glad you keep blogging. good will prevail miss caroline!