Tuesday, August 19, 2008

To talk or not to talk....

Yesterday was a good day and today proved to be even better.

Part of me wants to talk about this woman that seems to make me so happy, but then the other part of me doesn't want to talk too much about it for fear of jinxing it. So here I am not too sure what to do.

Like I mentioned yesterday, even though it's still really early, something feels so different about this. It's kind of like we have been friends for a long time and we are just starting where we left off. Kind of makes me wonder if there is such a thing as past lives. As comfortable as we are talking to each other, there is no way that we just recently met.

Tonight we were talking (yes that is why my blog post is late) and she was saying how she is a little anxious about meeting on Thursday. Her main reason for being anxious is she is worried that I will be disappointed in her. I told her that I am also a little anxious because what if I am not thin enough for her, etc. She then told me that she will not be disappointed because she chose me. I have never in my life had someone tell me that. It's a good feeling knowing that someone has picked me instead of the other way around.

We both believe that you have to be friends before you are partners and that is why we will probably take things slow. So, there will be no U-Haul on the second date.

The cool thing is I know I will be OK if there is no chemistry and I will be OK if we hit it off.

7 comments:

redfrog27 said...

This is good, I love the part that says I will okay either way. A partner/spouse should not make a person it should add to that person. I think if more people realized that maybe the divorce rate wouldnt be so high. Sorry didnt intend to go that way with the comment. I will keep my fingers crossed for you

R said...

I agree. I think it's awesome!! And as long as you are okay with either, I think all will be well!! Good for you Caroline!!!

Monogram Queen said...

I think somehow you "know" when you meet the right one. Oh I pray she's the ONE for you Caroline and you for her!

Eye of the Rainbow said...

Take it one day at a time! Im very happy for you!

Renaissance Woman said...

Of course you will be okay either way! And I am hoping that everything goes great! It is very nice to have somebody pick you...I'm happy for you.

Sandra said...

No U-Haul on the second date, heh, put that down in Caroline's book of dating rules, I like that one :)

Also (if it's not too late) I'd say don't tell her about your blog, at least not for a while...a girl's gotta have her blog to vent on sometimes, ya know?

MJ said...

Good deal, no U-haul. Maybe she'll move down here next year.