Monday, October 15, 2007

Never Really Knew Me

So let me tell you about my Thursday night.

I had called MG before I left work asking her what she wanted to do for dinner. We decided to just order pizza. When I got home I continued to pack and when the pizza arrived, MG and I sat down together to eat. I tried to make small talk even though she was making it very difficult. I knew that we still had 2 days before I moved out and I was just trying to make things a little easier. As soon as MG and I broke up she suddenly felt that any question I asked she would be as vague as possible. This kind of irritated me because suddenly everything in her life was a huge secret. After trying for several minutes to talk with her, I got tired of hearing her say "just a friend" or "why do you want to know that." I snapped back at her and told her that I was so angry about everything that I feel like could punch something. I finished my dinner and went back to packing. About 30 minutes later I asked her if she wanted to help me get my cats back down to my house. I had decided that I really wanted to get out of the house and taking the cats back down south would be the best thing. As I packed up the cats, MG started loading her car up with some of my other things. Both MG and I left the house around the same time.

I got to my house and unloaded the cats and then waited for MG. About 20 minutes later she arrived. I thought it was weird that she didn't pull in the driveway and even asked her to pull into the driveway. She told me, "I don't want to pull into the drive way. Oh, and the since you threatened violence again me, the police are on the way."

Excuse me?

Yes, MG called the police because she thought I had made threats against her. Even though I knew I had done nothing wrong, my first thought was, shit I am going to jail. My second thought was, How am I going to explain this to my boss.

I tried talking to MG, but she insisted that I was a threat and she had no idea what I was going to do. A few minutes later the police did arrive. One cop pulled up in a patrol car, the other drove up in a paddy wagon. Again, I thought for sure I was going to jail.

MG explained to the police why she had called and the officers looked at her like she was nuts. We all agreed that I needed to leave the house that night. I asked MG if I could come up and get my dog and some of my clothes and she said that was fine as long as I was escorted by the police. The officers told her that they could not escort us up north and if she really felt threatened she would need to call the police once she got home. Both the officers and I were confused as to why she followed me to my house even though she was so afraid to be around me.

When I arrived at MG's house she was on the phone. I asked if she was calling the police and she said, "yes, they should be here in a few minutes."

Long story short....I got my dog and some clothes and I got the hell out of there. I had no idea what MG was going to do and I wanted nothing to do with it.

I was pretty upset Thursday night because I was shocked that she would call the police on me. I never once threatened her and I had/have every right to be angry about this whole situation. I called my best friend, and she told me there was no way I was going to sleep on the floor at my house and I would stay with her and her husband. The whole situation was truly a blessing in disguise. For the first time in a long time, I felt like I was at a place where I was loved and welcome.

Now that this situation is behind me I can laugh about what happened last Thursday night. I really feel sorry for MG. I think she has some issues going on and is confused about a lot of things. She can't seem to understand that she can not disrupt my life as much as she did and think I will not be angry. And more importantly, I would never put a hand on anyone in an angry way. This really shows that she never really knew who I was. She does not realize what she just lost.

22 comments:

SassyFemme said...

Good Lord, that woman is sounding like a total nutcase! Thank God you're out of there and away from her.

Eye of the Rainbow said...

Good god, Im glad your alive and well after all that BS. Damn girl, you need a bodyguard. LOL

Cheeky said...

Oh for crying out loud - I am glad that the police sided with you and also that you are out of there.......

Audra said...

wow! I am glad you got out of that situation...

Anonymous said...

Like I said. SINGLE WHITE FEMALE!!!! Are you going to password protect this blog in case she gets even nuttier????
Thinking positive vibes and sending them your way!!!!!
Sarah in Indy

Anonymous said...

What a crazy situation! Glad that you're out of there!
Abby

yankeegirl said...

Caroline- I've been gone for a few days so I have been catching up. Wow! I'm with Sassy, I'm glad you're away from that woman. (((hugs)))

redfrog27 said...

Wow.Nothing else comes to mind but wow.I dont think she is right in the head or loves to play the victim even when she is not a victim Good lord

Katie said...

You know my thoughts on this whole thing.

Anonymous said...

Wow. There is so much I could say to this. I'll simply leave it at this: I'm glad you got out of there. Peace.

Casey said...

Wow. I do not even know what to say. That's just nutty. I cna't beleive the roller coaster you have been on - here's hoping that it levels out from here on out.

*shaking my head* I just don't get it. She seemed kinda normal from what I could tell from the blog she had, etc. I wonder what made her flip her lid. Whatever the reason - I'm glad you found out now instead of months down the road. Wild. Just wild.

Jaded Mama said...

Caroline...I have to shake my head at MG's actions....
Glad you are moving on to BETTER things

Lynilu said...

Everyone, I've known Caroline since she was just a little girl, but I've known her very closely for over 10 years. She is the least violent person I can think of. She is a person who has taken a figurative beating from many others because she does all possible to avoid conflict, and I'll just repeat here what I said to her when she called me on her way back to get Sophie and told me about this ... MG is simply f**king nuts!

Yes, Caroline has been pushed a lot recently, and yes, I'll bet she does want to punch *something*, but punch a person? NEVER!! I know you all see that. Sometimes there is some element of truth when things blow up like this. But Caroline doesn't have that in her. I'm so relieved that she is out of there. She sounds like herself again.

Love you, Caroline!

Anonymous said...

OMG what a horror story. I think you are lucky to be rid of that wacko. Hopefully your life will soon return to normal.........there are better days down the road. Use this as a learning experience. There is someone out there for you, you just haven't found her yet. Have faith Caroline.

Ruth

Julie said...

Nutbag. The world is full of them. She's someone else's problem now-:)

patti_cake said...

Honey she lost a true gem but you, you escaped a PSYCHO. Who in the HELL calls the cops over some mickey mouse bullshit like that? OMG Karma is just waiting to leap on her. Poor Oliver having a nutcase for a Mommy.

amy h said...

This strikes me as really odd. I've known you for, what, 18 years now? And the idea of you hitting anyone makes me laugh. Someone is just a tad paranoid, I think.

(And sorry I haven't been able to comment much -- a certain baby has been very demanding!)

Anonymous said...

Alrighty then. I was drinking a sode while reading this and almost spit it out when I got to the cops. What a flipping weirdo! I am sorry you are hurting right now but so glad you got away from her!

Kerry

Kelly said...

Are you sure she isn't an escapee from Three Rivers psychiatric hospital? Holy crap that's insane. I'm glad you're back at home. I know it may be lonely and times, but it is better than MG's and your life will only continue to get better.

Holly said...

OMG! Caroline. I am so sorry.

Sonya said...

Oh my. I'm speechless. I'm glad you can laugh about it now. I imagine it was pretty crazy at the time.

I'm glad you are home!

Francesca said...

Shit! My jaw is still on the friggin' floor!!! What a horrible situation! I'm so sorry you went through that!

(I'm catching up on blog posts.)

xx