Monday, July 02, 2007

Going Private?

I am thinking of making my blog private. I hate to do that, but I am so tired of receiving comments from my brother about crap. And the comments I receive from my brother I do not publish and I just kind of hold their contents inside. I am starting to feel the pressure from holding all his nasty comments inside and I need to do something to stop it.

I know there are readers that do not comment, but I need to know if I made this blog private how many of you would still read it.

Please leave me a comment to let me know if you would still read if I made the blog private. It would mean that I would have to have your email in order to have it set up so you could get in.

Just an idea that is floating around in my head....Let me know what you all think.

At some point I need to stop the abuse from my family even if they will not.

42 comments:

  1. Yup, I worry about you and the kitties, I would still read.

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  2. i am a lurker usually but i would still read if that is ok with you

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  3. I would still read. :)

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  4. I'd still be a reader too! :)

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  5. You know I'd read it! :)

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  6. I've never left a comment before, but I read your blog everyday. I would continue to read if you decided to go private.

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  7. I've never left a comment before, but I read everyday. If you decide to go private, I would love a password...

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  8. You already have my email and of course I would still read it!! Thinking of you!!

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  9. Plan on seeing my name on your list! Do what you need to to protect yourself buddy.
    Put his sorry comments on here- I'll give him an earful.HeyI'll trade you- your brother's email for my sister's lol now that would be fun!

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  10. I would read you!!!!
    I would I would!
    I would read you in a boat andI would read you in a moat and with a goat and in a ....
    You get the idea!!

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  11. I'd read...take care of yourself and do what works best.

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  12. i am a lurker but i would love to still read your blog

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  14. Anonymous7:19 PM

    just a lurker but I would enjoy still being able to read...:)

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  15. Anonymous7:32 PM

    i'd still read! cabecker@optonline.net

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  16. Anonymous7:47 PM

    I would still read!!!

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  17. Anonymous7:55 PM

    Caroline--I'm a lurker from
    Toronto, Ontario Canada
    I love to read your blog every day
    and would like to continue to read.



    email: brkittens@sympatico.ca

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  18. I would still read and would even promise to call you at 4:30am, even if I don't remember it.

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  19. Anonymous8:11 PM

    yep-- me too. I'd read you. although I don't know how to be un-anonymous...

    FWIW, I just find it interesting that your family, who has disowned you, really hasn't. They lurk and send you comments. I think they must be pretty malignant narcissists and you're being subjected to their narcissistic rage. To be truly disowned, one should be treated with indifference and ignored-- they apparetnly are incapable of that and see that it is you who has rejected them. I wonder if you couldn't get a restarining order against them or block their IP? One final comment, your brother sounds like the reason why some animals eat their young...

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  20. While I haven't left many comments, I am a daily reader too!

    And I would still want to read if you went private. :)

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  21. I like what anonymous said!
    I would absolutely keep reading!

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  22. Look at all the Caroline-love!! Cool, eh? You can count me in.

    And your brother is a dick.

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  23. I'd read...love it Caroline...

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  24. Anonymous6:07 AM

    Of Course I would continue to lurk!

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  25. Anonymous6:49 AM

    I am a Canadian lurker and would love to continue reading your blog.

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  26. Of course I'd still read this here blog. . .

    However, I think you are kinda letting him win if you succumb to the pressure. Just because he says something certainly doesn't make it true or relevant, right?

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  27. Anonymous8:28 AM

    I would!

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  28. Girl, you know I would still read. Go private if that will help you. He is harassing you, you know.

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  29. Anonymous9:11 AM

    I would read your blog and share my e-mail.

    Kelly

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  30. Sometimes I lurk, most of the time I comment, I would still read it---I would miss you if not! Jamie

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  31. Sorry you're having to put up with the crap.
    I don't comment very much but I'm a regular visitor and would continue to do so!

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  32. Anonymous2:09 PM

    I am a lurker...and I would keep reading your blog if you went private.

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  33. Anonymous3:35 PM

    i am a lurker too, please let me in on your private blog if you so like... you need to have healthy boundaries that help you to feel safe and whole.

    carolyn in austin

    cargrem@yahoo.com

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  34. Anonymous3:36 PM

    carolyn in austin sez..

    count me in...

    cargrem@yahoo.com

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  35. We're definitely in if you go private!

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  36. Count me in as another lurker who would continue to read.

    You need to do what ever you can to protect yourself emotionally, and if making your blog private helps do it. My sincere sympathies for the angst your family is causing.

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  37. id love to read!

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  38. Caroline, yes, go private. I read because I want to read about YOU, and I enjoy the comments of your regular readers. There is no reason on this earth to open yourself to the venom. Do yourself right in this, O?

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  39. Anonymous10:11 AM

    i'd still read! take care of you.

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  40. I need Sophie-dog fixes, of course I'd read!

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