Today I recieved an email from my ex-sister-in-law Jenn. She was married to my ex-husbands older brother. It was good hearing from her. She informed me that James, my ex-husband, is back living with his parents and working for their company. I am not surprised. James was never motivated to do anything. Well, he was motivated to "chat" on the computer. But that was about it. He was a grown man with child like dreams. I guess he was safe for me at that time in my life. He was very indecisive and it was like pulling teeth to get him to make a decision.
Thinking back on our time together I should have known it was not going to work out. From day one I was not happy. I was pretending to be happy. I almost called off the wedding four months before we were going to get married because I found emails from another woman. He said there was nothing to them and I believed him. Our marriage started the same way it ended. He started up a friendship with a woman in Omaha, NE. She was also a JW and also married. I remember going to my Uncle who was an elder in the church and his exact words were, "James is the most loyal person I know." Pretty much he said what you are telling me can't be true. But it was and I felt so alone like no one believed me.
I don't wish any bad things to happen to James. I am actually sorry he is back with his parents. When you look up the word control his parents are in the definition. They are experts at control. Always have been, always will be.
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