tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15229872.post4133535630472036852..comments2023-11-02T09:21:33.082-05:00Comments on Mirror Images of Myself: The StoryCarolinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14476059033054104085noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15229872.post-32489487144543735822008-03-16T09:52:00.000-05:002008-03-16T09:52:00.000-05:00He lies about how many kids he has? Oh that's ric...He lies about how many kids he has? Oh that's rich.Minnesota Nicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00114323395915699960noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15229872.post-87685917979134870812008-03-13T23:42:00.000-05:002008-03-13T23:42:00.000-05:00Well, mister anonymous certainly needs to lighten ...Well, mister anonymous certainly needs to lighten up. I would ignore him (although I know it's really hard) and leave his stuff up if he chooses to post it.<BR/><BR/>His grammar and punctuation are awful and he is quite obviously out to stir up trouble. People like that never learn to look in the mirror. He is projecting stuff onto you honey and if you can, try to ignore him.<BR/><BR/>I say that even though I know it's hard. I'm dealing with my own stuff in that regard and I understand how difficult it is. Take care, Caroline. You are doing a fabulous job. Really.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15229872.post-46192808804320687252008-03-13T22:02:00.000-05:002008-03-13T22:02:00.000-05:00everyone BUT anonymous #2--thanks for your support...everyone BUT anonymous #2--thanks for your supportive words. i knew you would get a kick out of his comments.<BR/><BR/>anonymous#2--you say you have never dogged me out on my blog...hum, i have saved all your comments...calling someone a piece of shit is not dogging them out? OK, whatever. wish i could link everyone to your myspace page, but you have suddenly made it private. are you trying to hide something? oh, and why on your page did you say you had 3 sons when you actually have 4. out of sight...out of mind. most people i would think it would be sad that a child was not close with their father, but i think in this case it just might save N's life. and for someone that says they only come to my blog once a month...again another lie. you have spent more then 4 hours on my blog in the last two nights. as you can see i did not post any pictures of the boys and will not. so, i do believe you can move on.Carolinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14476059033054104085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15229872.post-10573875230870511832008-03-13T21:41:00.000-05:002008-03-13T21:41:00.000-05:00I'm sorry I didn't even read what he wrote - has t...I'm sorry I didn't even read what he wrote - has the man never heard of punctuation? Spelling? Grammar? <I>Paragraphs?</I> It's just basic 2nd grade stuff! <BR/><BR/>Don't worry Caroline - for someone's opinion to matter, they have to be someone you respect.Minnesota Nicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00114323395915699960noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15229872.post-36512733235454653032008-03-13T21:29:00.000-05:002008-03-13T21:29:00.000-05:00Hang in there Caroline. God gives us tests so we c...Hang in there Caroline. God gives us tests so we can see our true strength. It may not seem like it, but obviously you mean enough to your brother that he spends his free time googling to find you. Of course everyone will have their own side to every story, but wow. I am sorry about everything that has happened between not only you and him, but you and your family.Audrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13244320704174131237noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15229872.post-74452208599492713602008-03-13T10:13:00.000-05:002008-03-13T10:13:00.000-05:00Looks like your successful brother needs some help...Looks like your successful brother needs some help with grammar. Hooray for him, turning his life around like he has. Woohoo! Is he looking for a gold medal? Remember, you are also turning your life around! You are coming out on top after a series of unfortunate events that would take anyone down. You are a winner!<BR/><BR/>But still, your business between your parents is your business between you and your parents. Each side is going to have their own perceptions. That is only normal. Bottom line, you are at odds. No big surprise there, eh? But suddenly brother is doing well for himself and feels the need to be all superior and stick up for mom & dad.<BR/><BR/>And I’m sorry, but I have to laugh at this “At least he is a decent enough guy not sue your pants off”. Your brother claims to be a parent? Surely he’d understand! What parent would sue THEIR CHILD? Oh, but he’s decent because he’s not actually following through? He’s thinking that and that is bad enough… that isn’t “decent”. A decent “parent” would step up and figure out how to mend this relationship, how to resolve the issues instead of fueling them. <BR/><BR/>Hang in their Caroline, hang in there. You are in a better place now and it is only looking up from here!Sonyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14503800179759524410noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15229872.post-80628682701875375572008-03-13T08:58:00.000-05:002008-03-13T08:58:00.000-05:00Hmmm maybe you need to let some of us know your Br...Hmmm maybe you need to let some of us know your Brothers first name eh?Monogram Queenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00201245389134780751noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15229872.post-43028875226317381672008-03-13T04:34:00.000-05:002008-03-13T04:34:00.000-05:00Sounds like someone has held a grudge against you ...Sounds like someone has held a grudge against you for a long ass time and needs a little therapy. <BR/>While his illegible post was amusing and provides another look into your life, to me it is ok if you choose to delete his comments and walk away. <BR/>I can't begin to tell you how proud I am of you as a friend.Juliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01307762555108511788noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15229872.post-47339509193934882092008-03-13T04:33:00.000-05:002008-03-13T04:33:00.000-05:00Sounds like someone has held a grudge against you ...Sounds like someone has held a grudge against you for a long ass time and needs a little therapy. <BR/>While his illegible post was amusing and provides another look into your life, to me it is ok if you choose to delete his comments and walk away. <BR/>I can't begin to tell you how proud I am of you as a friend.Juliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01307762555108511788noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15229872.post-38771629571610465582008-03-13T02:11:00.000-05:002008-03-13T02:11:00.000-05:00Caroline fact is you found my space page good that...Caroline fact is you found my space page good that is why it is there. But you have no idea what the hell I have been doing for the last four years now do you. Not a clue at all. But here are some facts if you can find my My Space page you can probably find my company's web sites not to hard. And as far as the lake I will set the story straight we do have a house there. We have one boat and a lot of friends with boats. I do have a production company here and at the lake all can be verified by websites and also well I guess 150 comments form people I Have worked with in the last year are made up too. LOL that's a good one. Mom and Dad paying my bills are you nuts. I will say this I would not be where I am today if was not for our parents but I had to change my life in a complete 180 to get where I am today. I know where that place is and I am very happy in it. And no one can ever take that form me NO ONE. I am proud of who I am what I have and what I have accomplished in the last seven years of my life. I have everything I could dream of. I am proud of my wonderful wife my wonderful sons and everything I have built to provide for them. You know its funny I have never dogged you out on here only to bitch that you say things about Mom and Dad that just are not true. I can care or less what you say about me. I know who I am where I am and where I am going. And I know I am doing it all on my own. But when you say both mom and dad don't talk to you just because you are gay you know that is lie. How many of your readers know that dad is not even a JW and talked to you for over two years after you "came out" he is only mad at you because you made promises you did not keep. At least he is a decent enough guy not sue your pants off. I'll give him that. Mom and dad both gave you the world and you shit on them in a bad way. And that is why I post when you lie about what really happened. And that is the only time I have bitched on this thing I only read about once a month just to see what you say about them and to make sure you don't put any pics of my kids up thats itAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15229872.post-84893709502003150292008-03-12T20:09:00.000-05:002008-03-12T20:09:00.000-05:00He's such a nutjob ass, he needs to go get a life....He's such a nutjob ass, he needs to go get a life.<BR/><BR/>Ditto to anonymous on being adopted. From one adoptee to another, it IS a wonderful thing sometimes, isn't it?SassyFemmehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11825555906386002414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15229872.post-76201052614858190872008-03-12T18:08:00.000-05:002008-03-12T18:08:00.000-05:00Aren't you glad you are adopted and not related by...Aren't you glad you are adopted and not related by blood?<BR/><BR/>I would that if any reason would be cause to tell your mom, "I'm sorry you spent so much money on me- but you could have picked someone else. Your loss!"Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15229872.post-4857022883369709432008-03-12T16:41:00.000-05:002008-03-12T16:41:00.000-05:00Parenthood is a responsiblity and a choice. It's ...Parenthood is a responsiblity and a choice. It's not like you were a surprise "bill" - they chose you. No one held a gun to their head and ordered them to be parents. I'm surprised their 'religion' doesn't teach them that.<BR/><BR/>And yeah - good point. Funny how paying them back wasn't mentioned until you came out.Minnesota Nicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00114323395915699960noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15229872.post-2940328533881493382008-03-12T15:01:00.000-05:002008-03-12T15:01:00.000-05:00I'm sorry your relationship with your parents was ...I'm sorry your relationship with your parents was around money. It sounds like that may be the case with brother as well... maybe he just doesn't see it, yet.<BR/><BR/>My mother is a master at guilting people. I learned long ago that anything they do for you comes with strings attached, unfortunately. To this day I have a hard time accepting "help" (from anyone) because I always worry that there are strings attached... or I don't know how to navigate their kind gesture.<BR/><BR/>Whatever the case - the situation between you and your folks really only is between you and your folks.Sonyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14503800179759524410noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15229872.post-13623802972810322942008-03-12T14:14:00.000-05:002008-03-12T14:14:00.000-05:00why don't you put up the link to his myspace page ...why don't you put up the link to his myspace page so we can all take a looksy at mr. nasty pants??!! Maybe we can leave a comment or two...<BR/><BR/>LOLAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com